‘Energetic cord’ is a phrase that comes up a lot
during the energy sessions.
There are healthy energetic cords and unhealthy
energetic cords.
When I find unhealthy ones it is recommended to
disconnect them obviously but some healthy cords are also advised to be
disconnected.
What is an energetic
cord?
Imagine something like
an energetic umbilical cord that goes from one persons’ heart to another. These
are important cords to have in a relationship.
Every time we meet
people, family members, friends, colleagues etc. these cords is created. In most
of the cases, these cords are weak and thin and are washed from us during shower
or after a night’s sleep.
The cords are weak since
the connection between us and the person is weak.
And the more the
relation is stronger the cords get thicker and multiply.
When a baby is born she
is starting to send cords to the people she loves and that take care of her.
Healthy cords can
transfer good vibration, warmness, love, feeling we are wanted and more positive
energies.
A healthy cord can also
hurt us for example, when we miss someone we love and is far away.
In cases of adoption,
the little child is connected to parents that don’t want him and it is very
important to disconnect these cords.
And on the other side,
there are the adoptive parents that want her. It is important to make
sure there are cords between the parents and the adopted child. It could be
very hard for the parents to connect to the child and to the child to connect
to the new parents without the energetic cords.
It is also important to
verify on a biological baby. The cords usually are connected automatically but
in cases that we see attachment issues it is worth checking.
I have treated
a mother that adopted a baby. The child is 7 yrs old now and the parents are
describing behavioral issues.
The first
thing was to check if there are healthy cords and if not, to create them.
And then,
important to disconnect cords with the biological parents since these can hurt
the child. They hurt physically and emotionally and can evolve to much more serious
issues.
Every time a teacher (or
an instructor or even a manager of a large group) is getting a session with me
I explain that the group she is teaching or mentoring is sending her cords each
and every day she meets with them. They love her. They look up to her. And even
though these cords are weak, they are still draining her energy.
These are healthy but
needs to be released. I recommend every teacher to imagine while showering,
that little cords are getting disconnected from her and are washed off.
Important to mention,
that the children (or teammates) are not sending the cords intentionally or
with negative intent.
An unhealthy cord is
usually a cord that is not from heart to heart, it sucks the energy and sends
negative energies toward us.
Through these cords we can
also get physical/emotional/mental problems, beliefs, traumas and more. In most
cases, unhealthy cords will continue with us from a past lifetime. Meaning, a
person that was with me in a past lifetime and we went through a journey
together, I will most likely have an unhealthy energetic cords (and more than
one) with this person.
For example, married
couple, superficially none of them has control issues, but the relationship is
not successful. I then check and see unhealthy cords that vibrates with an
energy of domineering from a past lifetime. This cord must be disconnected for
the relationship to succeed.
Ever happen to you that
you just met a person, never seen him before, and the minute he walks in the
door you already have an opinion about him, a decision or a vibe?
This vibe, is most
likely something you already experienced with this man in a past lifetime.
Important to remember,
this vibe does not reflect on the person he is today.
Disconnecting an
unhealthy cord or a healthy one that the body is requesting to disconnect cannot
hurt the person.
The result might be,
that the relationship with this person will slowly fade but since all happens
to the highest best, this relationship was probably bad and hurtful to begin
with and which would probably get disconnected by itself but with a lot of pain
along the way.
The next time you will
be hurting because someone you love it far away from you, know that these are
the cords.
